I was talking to my friend and we were talking about what we think of as the threshold for sex.
I disagreed entirely with her threshold – she only considers it sex when she has an orgasm.
I actually am not sure what I think. I used to think about it in very black & white terms (ie/ penetration) but I don’t think of it like that anymore. It’s such a boring and meaningless threshold and involves very arbitrary presumptuous heterosexual ideas – it just doesn’t feel right.
What does anyone else think?